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UNFAIR CHILDSUPPORT LAWS FOR FATHERS

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TIS IS A PETITION TO ATTEMPT TO GET THE GOVERMENT TO RECONSIDER THE LAW RETAINING TO THE CHILD SUPPORT LAW IN THE UNITED STATES.I MY SELF AM SUFFERING DUE TO A FINACHIAL DROP IS THE ECONOIMY.WE AS FATHERS ARE A BIG A BIG PART OF OUR CHILDREN'S LIVES , AND IT IS UNFAIR THAT WE GET THE SHORT END OF THE STICK,!IT IS ALSO UNFAIR THAT WE AS FATHERS GET OUR PERMITS,TAXE INTERCEPTED,AND WE GO TO JAIL IF WE CANT AFFORD TO PAY IT AND ITS NOT RIGHT THAT THE GOVERMENT ONLY LOOK'S AT US AS DEAD BEATS,WHEN THE MOTHERS ARE FREE TO DO WHAT EVER THEY WANT WITH THE MONEY FOR OUR KIDS.TO ANYONE WHO IS SUFFERING FROM THE UNFAIR AND INJUSTCE CHILDSUPPORT LAWS SINGH THIS PETITION. (ONE VOICE WILL NEVER BE HEARD,BUT UNITED WE CAN MAKE A CHANGE)

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2 days ago
A J. from Hephzibah, GA writes:
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I'm over 20,000 dollars in debt from Taxes, the fact that I support three kids all year and am unable to claim them at the end of the year causes me to owe taxes every year. I haven't been able to find stable employment since 2013 and now the IRS is coming after me. I am presently unemployed and seeking employment. It will cost me 300 dollars to get the child support agency to review my cases but I am broke because of the unemployment. SO my arrears are steadily backing up at the normal rate. The Mom receives my taxed money tax free to her and she gets to claim the kids at the end of the year. I fear that I will ether lose my home do prison time maybe even both all because of the tough economy and the one size fit all approach to child support. I am not a criminal , I am broke. I never thought that the system would use my children to put me in jail, but it is a reality I MAY SOON HAVE TO FACE.. The deck is stacked against me , when I am working I lose nearly 50% of my pay to child support and taxes then at the end of the year I usually owe 1 or 2 thousand more that I'm unable to pay which has interest and penalties. the cycle continues year after year. It just seems like Men are punished for the failed relationships and Mothers are rewarded.
3 days ago
Someone from Kansas City, MO writes:
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My daughters mother decided to have two more kids out of wed-lock after our separation. Because of that for the past 7 years she was unable to work a consistent job. Because of this my child support would fluctuate and court ordered withdraws would increase or decrease when she got a job. I married and I have maintained a consistent lifestyle and the only thing that she does is use the fact that she now has siblings that cant be separated. She has had food stamps and living expenses. At one point, was living in a unfurnished studio paying child support, daycare, food, diapers and clothing. I surrendered my car, moved several times and had utilities cut off some months.Whats even worse is that when I lost my job I fell behind and I was facing jail time. I have no criminal record and never been to prison. My emotional stress and anxiety watching her get new cars and shopping made life that much more difficult to bear. I was denied income assistance and food stamps and at times I had to take food from my ex's fridge to have something for my kid to eat. This whole situation lead to me to work more then one job that led to less time having my daughter. Which also led to my daughters mom complaining to the state that she has her more which increased my support amount. Life is better now but I just paid 10k to attorney that did nothing but increase my child support and add bills because I am now married. She talks bad about me to my daughter teaching her that a single mom with 3 kids is ok and introducing my daughter to other men in her life that never sticks around and told my daughter and her other siblings ( who have different fathers ) that they are the reason she is unhappy. Scary thing is when she had just one kid an I didn't want to be with her she said in her exact words. I will have my own family with or without you and don't need anyone. She did exactly that. Question is, why does the legal system do this to fathers. We become slaves to society and ruled under a law that kills our faith in the system. We love our children unconditionally and having them creates positive determination to succeed not for ourselves but for our children. We loose 99.9% of the time when our child lives less them a mile away and we can only see them for two hours at a time and every other weekend. How can we build, bond, and bind the family connection. The most important thing here is the child. Our children grown to see one parent more worthy and in charge then the other. Children should have a mutual respect for both parents. This only teaches them that choosing sides is how things work.
3 days ago
LaDonist M. from Antioch, TN writes:
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This child support deal is so out of control it just needs to be banned. The mother takes care of the kids or child in her home and the father do the same. Therefore it won't be a conflict. But how many more comments do we need to get for someone in the Congress to reach out to us? An email or phone number would be nice.
4 days ago
LaDonist M. from Antioch, TN writes:
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Who do I need to talk to about this child support issue because I want a response?
4 days ago
Melanie C. from Brandenburg, KY writes:
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Amen!!! I'm with you 100%
5 days ago
Tj C. from Townsend, TN writes:
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Please revaluate the child support laws. Many of us are financially suffering do to unfair laws.
6 days ago
Cindy F. from Magalia, CA writes:
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I am thoroughly disgusted at the fact that I have watched my brother loose his automotive business license because of a hiccup in payments to the child support agencies. This error, cost him his business, the means of how he was trying to support his family and pay his child support was taken from him. Is the idea here to disable these Men / Women to the point of going to jail as an only option? California state does nothing to the "Dead Beat Dads" who are living off of our prison system, (what do they pay?). The Dad's that are trying to keep a job, start a business, amount to something respectable after a family break up, are cut off at the knees for trying to be legit. The state actually hinders their chances of ever being able to rise above or provide. The interest charges of Child Support does not apply in every state of the U.S. I feel that the Interest is not necessary. I plead that the interest of arrears be stopped, wiped clean, zeroed. It is unfair to our American Men and Women who are trying to support their families. They cannot get a loan, buy a house, take a cruise with family, because of the "Interest" on arrears. The child support fees have been paid for, the interest that rolls over and accrues each year or month is the insanity that never gives them an option to catch up or pay off. Stop killing the spirit of our American people. ERASE all interest on child support fees. Let these people have a goal they can achieve one day. Why are they not allowed to take a vacation with a family they have paid fees for plus interest all these years? Please, help me to do something about this!! This interest money does not go to funding college for these children, it does not go to the custodial parent for child raising, the interest is a money racketeering system that the state collects on. No bank account pays 10 percent interest, so no one trying to earn a living and paying child support should be subjected to these interest fees. I am tired of seeing Men who are good and not "Dead Beats" that are losing their freedom to keep a regular bank account , drivers license, business license, savings account, or just a family vacation because our system treats them WORSE than a terrorist. INVESTIGATION OF DEAD BEAT DADS CHILD SUPPORT REFORM HOW OUR SYSTEM IS FAILING AMERICAS CHILDREN. WHAT IS OUR SYSTEM DOING TO THE FUTURE CHILDREN OF THE WORLD? WHAT DO THEY SEE AS A ROLE MODEL? WHAT IS THE INTEREST CAP A GOVERNMENT AGENCY IS ALLOWED TO CHARGE? IS THERE A CAP? IF NOT, SHOULDN’T THERE BE? WHO GETS THE $ FROM THE INTEREST CHARGED ON CHILD SUPPORT ARREARAGES? WHY ARE PARENTS GETTING CHARGED AN INTEREST RATE ON CHILD SUPPORT FEES? DOES THE MOTHER OR CHILD GET THIS INTEREST MONEY? WHAT DOES IT COST THE AGENCY TO GET PAYMENTS ONCE A MONTH OR SEND A LETTER IF PAYMENT IS NOT MADE? IT SURELY CANNOT COST 10 PERCENT. WHY IS THE INTEREST CHARGED ON THE WHOLE SUM OWED AND NOT JUST A MONTH BY MONTH BASIS? FOR INSTANCE IF A PERSON MISSES ONE MONTH, THEN THERE SHOULD BE A LATE CHARGE OR AN INTEREST ON THAT PARTICULAR MONTH, WHY DOES IT CARRY ACROSS THE INTIRE AMOUNT OWED IN ARREARS. IT WOULD BE FAIR TO ASSUME THAT IF THE INTEREST OF ARREARS WERE LIFTED, MORE OF THESE DEBTS WOULD BE PAID. THE SOCIAL SERVICES DOES NOT PAY THE MOTHER OR THE CHILD ANY MORE OR LESS FROM THE INTEREST FEES. IT SEEMS UNCONSTITUTIONAL TO TAKE AWAY THESE PARENTS RIGHTS BECAUSE THERE IS A STRUGGLE FOR EMPLOYMENT OR FINANCIAL STABILITY. THERE SHOULD BE A RIGHT TO FILE FOR HARDSHIP DURING CERTAIN SITUATIONS. WHY DO THESE PARENTS HAVE NO RIGHTS? THEY ARE PAYING AS THEY CAN BUT AS SOON AS THEY DON’T THEY ARE CUT OFF FROM ALL RIGHTS. WHAT DOES THE OTHER PARENT HAVE TO PROVE ABOUT LOOKING FOR EMPLOYMENT OR CARE OF THE CHILD? WHAT DOES THE OTHER PARENT HAVE TO DO IN ORDER TO STAY COMPLIANT? WHY DOES THE RECEIVING SUPPORT PARENT HAVE THE RIGHT TO CLAIM THE CHILD ON INCOME TAX IF THEY ARE NOT WORKING FOR THAT CHILD? WHY DOES THE INCOME TAX EVEN COME IN TO PLAY? IT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL TO STEAL SOMEONES INCOME TAX RETURN IN WHOLE. IF IT BE A PERCENTAGE FOR WAGES THAT ARE TO BE GARNISHED THAT IS DIFFERENT, BUT THE ENTIRETY IS REMOVING ONES RIGHTS TO FAIR INCOME EARNINGS UNDER THE FEDERAL LAW AND RIGHTS TO FAIR EMPLOYMENT. THE PERSON THAT PAID THOSE FEES FOR THE RIGHT TO WORK OR BE EMPLOYED SHOULD BE THE ONE WHO IS ANNUALLY ALLOWED TO CLAIM THEM AND IF THEY ARE SUPPORTING A CHILD WHILE THE OTHER PARENT DOES NOTHING TO WORK OR PROVIDE FOR THE CHILD IN QUESTION, THEY SHOULD BE THE ONE WHO HAS THE RIGHT TO CLAIM THAT CHILD AS THEY ARE PROVIDING FOR. ARREARS ARE DUE TO CALCULATIONS OR SITUATIONS THAT DOMINO AND WHEN THIS HAPPENS WE OFFER NO RELIEF FOR THE PARENT TO FIX IT. AT FIRST SIGN OF TROUBLE, WE THREATEN THEIR WORK PLACE, THEIR DRIVERS LICENSE, THEIR BANK ACCOUNTS, AND WHAT EVER FINANCIAL STABILITIES THEY MIGHT BE WORKING TOWARDS. HOW IS THIS AMERICAN? HOW ARE OUR CHILDREN SUPPOSED TO RESPECT THEIR PARENTS? THE GOVERNMENT IS STRIPPING PARENTS OF RIGHTS AND PUTTING THEM IN SITUATIONS THAT SOMETIMES END UP IN JAIL BECAUSE OF AN INABILITY TO PAY A SUM THAT IS DECIDED UPON BY AN AGENCY. TO BE HONEST, THE CHILD OR RECEIVING PARENT DOES NOT SEE THE WHOLE SUM OF WHAT IS PAID MONTHLY ANYWAY, SO WHY IS THERE A NEED FOR INTEREST? THE INTEREST IS NOT GOING TO THE CHILD TO PAY FOR COLLEGE, THE INTEREST IS ONLY SEEN BY THE GOVERNMENT , NEVER THE CHILD OR REVEIVING PARENT. THE PARENT RECEIVING CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS IS PAID A PART OF WHAT THAT MONTHLY PAYMENT CONSISTS OF. THE REST IS FOR THE AGENCY TO EMPLOY PEOPLE TO HANDLE THESE CASES. SO WHERE IS ALL THE INTEREST GOING? THIS IS A QUESTION THAT NEEDS TO BE ANSWERED, BECAUSE IF THE INTEREST THAT IS BEING CHARGES THE PAYING PARENTS WERE ACTUALLY APPLIED TO THESE ACCOUNTS, THERE SHOULD BE SOME POINT WHERE THE ACCOUNTS SHOULD FUTURISTICALLY BE ABLE TO BREAK EVEN. SO WHERE IS THE INTEREST BEING APPLIED? WHERE DOES IT GO? WHY IF SOMEONE PAYS ON TIME OR LATE SHOULD THERE BE A DIFFERENT RATE OF INTEREST APPLIED? A LATE CHARGE, YES, BUT A DIFFERENT INTEREST RATE?? SEEMS CORRUPT. HOW MANY FATHERS ARE IN JAIL BECAUSE OF A MISTAKE? YES, A COMPUTER GENERATED DONE NOTICE THAT THE CHILD SUPPORT WAS NOT PAID AND THEIR DRIVERS LICENSE WAS TAKEN AS A RESULT OF A COMPUTER ERROR. THESE COMPUTER ERRORS HAPPEN MORE THAN YOU MAY REALIZE. EVEN TO THE ONES WHO TRY TO PAY ON TIME AND STAY IN GOOD STANDING, THERE ARE NUMEROUS ACCOUNTS WHERE THE MISTAKE ON THE AGENCIES PART HAS BEGGED EXCUSAL DUE TO A COMPUTER GENERATED ERROR. HOW MANY WERE MISTAKENLY AFFECTED BY THESE MISTAKES AND NOW REMAIN IN JAIL FOR A COMPUTER GENERATED MISTAKE? A DRIVERS LICENSE ISSUE OR A CHARGE THAT WENT AGAINST THEIR RECORD WHICH CHANGED THEIR ABILITY TO BE EMPLOYED? HOW IS THIS HELPING OUR CHILDREN AGAIN??? WAS THIS NOT DESIGNED TO HELP THE CHILDREN THAT WERE IN NEED OF A DAD THAT WAS NOT A DEAD BEAT? WHAT ABOUT THE MEN WHO ARE NO DEAD BEAT, CARE DEEPLY ABOUT THEIR CHILDREN AND ARE TRYING TO MAKE A LIFE SO THEIR CHILDREN CAN RESPECT THEM, ARE WE NOT STRIPPING THEM OF THIS DIGNITY BY MAMING THEM OUT OF A JOB AND SOCIETY WITH LABELS? WHAT MOTHER IS GOING TO BRING THEIR CHILD TO A JAIL TO VISIT THEIR DAD? WHAT FATHER CAN GO TO WORK AND EARN THE MONEY NEEDED TO SUPPORT HIS KIDS IF HIS DRIVERS LICENSE IS TAKEN AWAY? HOW IS IT THAT THE WORKING MAN, WHO IS NOT BEING A DEAD BEAT DAD HAS NO RIGHTS? THE GOVERNMENT CAN HACK THEIR BANK ACCOUNTS, RENDERING THEM UNABLE TO SURVIVE AND GIVING THEM NO REASON OR WILL TO CONTINUE THE PROCESS MOST MEN WANT TO SUPPORT THEIR CHILDREN BUT THE GOVERNMENT CUTS THEM OFF AT THE KNEES AT THEIR FIRST SIGN OF PROBLEMS. COULD BE THE EMPLOYERS FAULT BUT THE DAD WHO IS TRYING TO BE LEGIT IS THREATENED OR ROBBED DUE TO PAPERWORK ERRORS. WHY ARE WORKING DADS NOT ALLOWED THEIR OWN INCOME TAX RETURNS? WHY ARE THEY NOT ALLOWED TO CLAIM THIS SUPPORT THEY PAY ANNUALLY AS A CHILD TAX CREDIT? WHY ARE THEY LIVING WITH LESS RIGHTS THAN OTHER WORKING MEN AND WOMEN? HOW MANY DEAD BEAT DADS CHOOSE 3 HOTS AND A COT INSTEAD OF TRYING TO FIGHT THIS WAR FROM THE OUTSIDE TRYING TO BE LEGIT. ISN’T IT IRONIC THAT THE MEN WHO WORK TO SUPPORT THEIR CHILDREN ARE ALSO PAYING TAXES THAT HELP TO HOUSE DEAD BEAT DADS IN JAIL. WHAT IS CORRUPTING THIS ISSUE FROM HAVING AN END DATE AS A GOAL? MEN ARE PAYING LONG AFTER THEIR CHILDREN ARE GRADUATED AND OUT OF COLLEGE, YET THERE IS STILL THIS DEBT HANGING OVER THEIR HEADS TO PAY BECAUSE THE INTEREST RATE IS PHENOMINAL AND CRIMINAL. THERE IS NO LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL FOR A WORKING MAN THAT HAS CHILD SUPPORT DUES. EVEN IF HE PAID ON TIME FROM DAY ONE, IF ONE PAYMENT WERE MISSED OR A CHANGE IN JOB AND PAPERWORK HICCUPS, THE MAN COULD BE AFFECTED FINANCIALLY FOR A LIFETIME DUE TO ONE ERROR, MOST LIKELY, NOT HIS OWN. SO WHAT INCENTIVES ARE WE GIVING MEN WHO PAY ON TIME, WHO HAVE NOT MISSED A PAYMENT IN A FULL YEAR? WE PAT THEM ON THE BACK BY TELLING THEM THEY HAVE NO RIGHT TO AN INCOME TAX RETURN. WE MESS WITH THEIR BANK ACCOUNTS ALL YEAR SO THEY ARE CONSTANTLY JUMPING THROUGH HOOPS TO FIX FAKE BANK CHARGES, DEPRESSING THE WILL TO THRIVE AND CARRY ON BEING A LEGIT HUMAN. WOW, WE HAVE SUCH A GREAT SYSTEM IN PLAY HERE. HOW DOES ONE CONSOLIDATE A LOAN, GET CREDIT, GET A CHANCE TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THEIR LIFE IF THIS IS THE SYSTEM OF HAVING A CHILD WHOSE MOTHERE DECIDES TO USE OR ABUSE THE WELFARE SYSTEMS? WHAT IS THE MOTHER DOING TO SUPPORT HER CHILD? IS SHE WORKING? IS SHE PAYING HER BILLS ON TIME? IS SHE ALLOWED TO USE HER CHILD SUPPORT INCOME AS A MEANS FOR A LOAN OR GOOD CREDIT RATINGS? IS THIS SHOWING OUR CHILDREN OF AMERICA THAT FATHERS SHOULD BE OBEYED, RESPECTED, LEADERS, GUIDES IN LIFE?
1 week ago
Jerry G. from Elk Grove, CA writes:
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for 9 year my ex-wife would not one Visitation NO COURT ORDER from any court... What Can I Do When My Ex Prevents Visitation? BUT I PAY CHILD SUPPORT EVER MONTH.... What Can I Do When My Ex Prevents Visitation? She will never show up in Court period after she get a child support order. She in Philippine and Child support is in Sacramento Court. HOW CAN THIS BE?
March 17, 2017
Someone from Miami, FL writes:
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Women fight for years for equal rights and they are considered equal to men. Having a child is a choice for both mother and father. A father should have the same rights as a mother in bringing a child into the world. If a woman want to have a baby a man can not stop her. If a man DO NOT want to have a child he should have the right to not be a father in the first 6 month. If a mother do not tell him then she is the sole parent. Child Suport laws is a business making CLEAR laws and rule to end the battles between mother and fathers is a must. Everyone know what is going on. Children have become PAY checks For the courts, lawyers councilor mothers and fathers. Shame you the justice system for the horrible crime
March 17, 2017
LaDonist M. from Antioch, TN writes:
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Are we going to be contacted to arrange for a meeting to address this matter?