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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.

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3 hours ago
Someone writes:
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can some one tell me whats going on in our courts regarding custody issue,s, the break up of the family , mom and lawyer throw dad out lawyer and mom run to court to get restraining order, its a guaranteed trip to the slammer, the female will try to violate the man , no consequence for her initiating contact, that's wrong their should be violation if she violates her own order , theres, a disturbing trend , of good loving fathers being ruined by false reports of assault or violations of a exparte no contact order, a very disturbing trend where the females go bezerk if they loose primary custody ,and kill the husband , or kids, then they use the I'm battered syndrome, the feds need too step in soon an d draft a new law, , the male during a break up becomes abused bye the system and the psycho ex soon too be, please men get a cat or a dog unconditional love also get a blow up doll make sure she,s dishwasher safe, ha ha lol
7 hours ago
Someone writes:
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apprehension one of the definition,s of fear anticipated, ok men , if your fear that lesbian man hating, court advocate give her a exparte order, mother inlaw, sisterinlaw, ganging up on you remember guys , exparte order,s the judge,s wife is fair game,, and remember lying in court its your right, baseless accusation,s the court encourage,s this and if your demented female ex wifes attorney makes you feel fearful, right you get the hang of it. also get to court early observe, get names, its time to make they,re lives oh motive does not matter in Massachusetts , civil claims let those exparte, order,s fly its your right everything that's near and dear to the lying demented psycho ex trench warfare,,guys , so I also recommend after being falsely prosecuted by a punk ADA find out where they drink be discreet, stealth mode find theyre make of car its illegal to drive drunk drop a dime on them , it makes you feel good , find a couple of cop bar,s and do your duty guys its a feel good procedure, well have a great day and remember exparte the way to go.
13 hours ago
Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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Google: "Crespo vs Crespo" in New Jersey THIS is the key to STOPPING these un-constitutional orders, and the epidemic of false accusations that comes with them. If you currently have a Protective Order, Restraining Order, PFA, Domestic Violence Injunction, etc. issued against you. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE..... Do NOT get angry / violent..... they LOVE to use that against an innocent man, who is just angry that he's being falsely accused, and put through the system like a common criminal. They don't care if you're guilty or not, but if you show anger, they WILL use THAT alone, to say you are guilty of whatever you're accused of. Trust me, I've seen it with my own eyes, MANY times. The MOST IMPORTANT thing you can do, is NOT get angry. Its unbelievably hard, but that's exactly what you have to do. Try to convince yourself, that you're happy about what is happening to you. Smile, and be ridiculously kind... NEVER show anger! Don't even get slightly agitated (sigh, roll your eyes, etc.)... they WILL use it against you... I can guarantee it. They are looking for anything, that can make your impossible case (he said, she said), easier to decide and get rid of, so they can get to the next case. Next, CHALLENGE YOUR ORDER in Court, because it VIOLATES your most BASIC Constitutional rights... the right to a trial, the right to due process, the right to face your accuser in a court of law (and cross examine them), and most importantly, your right to be presumed INNOCENT, until proven guilty in a court of law. You will need a good lawyer, who believes in the constitution. Tell your lawyer to use "Crespo vs Crespo" in New Jersey as an example. Crespo WON! A Judge in New Jersey RULED that these orders are un-constitutional (duh?), but then another Judge overturned the ruling on appeal, to appease his rulers.. and to keep with the status quo. Google it, to see for yourself. These orders are CLEARLY un-constitutional! .....and they WILL be RULED as such, if we get enough people CHALLENGING the Constitutionality of them IN COURT! These orders are rarely challenged on a CONSTITUTIONAL basis. This is the BEST option we have, to ending these false accusations and un-constitutional orders. FIND a GOOD lawyer, and CHALLENGE YOUR order in court, because it VIOLATES your MOST BASIC rights as an American citizen. Tell your lawyer to use "Crespo vs Crespo" in New Jersey as a reference. These false accusations, and using men as banks / atm's WILL STOP! If your lawyer is too lazy, to try to challenge the constitutionality of your order, FIRE THEM!... and find a GOOD lawyer, who believes in the Constitution. Until then, call the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC at (202) 224-5225 Ask for Senator Chuck Grassley. The FEDERAL GOVERNMENT has FINALLY agreed to look into these false accusations of domestic abuse. Do not waste this opportunity. They NEED to hear form us! Tell them WHAT needs to be done, to STOP these false accusations. Its so bad, that men all over America are refusing to have any contact with females, because they are afraid of being falsely accused, thrown out of their own house, or even thrown in jail or prison. Please, call the Senate Judiciary Committee (Federal government), in Washington DC, NOW! (202) 224-5225 Ask for Senator Chuck Grassley or his aide. This manipulation and extortion through false accusations WILL STOP! If you CURRENTLY have one of these orders issued against you, CHALLENGE it (because it violates your most BASIC civil rights in MANY ways), in court with a GOOD lawyer, and DO NOT show ANY anger or resentment at ALL. NONE. They are just WAITING for you to get angry. Stay unbelievably calm, and good luck!
1 day ago
Someone writes:
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here are some play book rules for men falsely acused , lost your job home kids ,go after her indirectly , inlaws, irs tax referral, dss claims, a no trespass order, restraining order, harassment order, in Massachusetts you can bring baseless claims, its protected speech in mass you have a free pass to lie through cops do ex wifes do it its your right under mass law . I was walking past the womans center the ceo looked at me really strange her body langugue put me in fear , see how easy men , the exparte complaint works for everybody
1 day ago
Someone from State College, PA writes:
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I am 3 months into such a nightmare now. I was kicked out of my home in front of my children by a spouse who simply wanted me evicted. We had a history of verbal fights, like most couples do, but these were exaggerated and overstated to make it sound as if I was a step away from becoming an ax murderer. The restraining order was preceded by several incidences of her calling the police on me when I was reacting to severely out of control children or arguments she initiated. I was never arrested in these cases, but they were still used to obtain the order. I got a lawyer who told me I had to take a plea or I stood no chance. We agreed to a temporary order for 1 year, largely because it admits no fault and can be expunged. I was petrified that I would lose my ability to be employed in my field. This has severely hurt my family financially and my delusional wife doesn't realize that she is only winning in the short term because our joint resources are being drained precipitously. I was put behind the 8 ball in my current custody battle, but have secured some visits. I don't think this would have happened, or it would have been much less severe if the reforms described here were in place. There was absolutely no evidence other than hearsay, and she might have thought twice if there was more of a possibility of consequences for her for these false allegations. Another reform I'd push for is allowing for the possibility that final orders can be expunged from the records if you remain compliant. That was the tipping factor that made me take the plea and not fight it. My wife followed the same playbook as her best friend , who did this to her husband a few years ago. He chose a strategy of fighting back as hard as he good, often spitefully. Don't ever do that. He lost everything, never sees the kids, and she has been living in their house with a new guy almost the whole time. I chose to go a different rout and focus 100% on the kids and holding her accountable for their well being and education, not only because I care about them deeply, but also because she also accused me of being abusive toward them, including them on the order. With my custody case I am documenting the conditions in the home that show the kids are actually doing worse since I've left (failing grades, truancy, dropping out of activities) and they still want to see me as often as they can. This has required great costs financially and emotionally, and I couldn't have done it without a supportive extended family.
2 days ago
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2 days ago
Someone from New Bedford, MA writes:
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these judges are under a lot of pressure a lot of them are drunk on the bench after lunch recess , they sneak off to the country club for thierbooze or in their lower draw, its time to drop a dime on them , get to court early , 2 hours observe the faces getting out of the employees cars take their plate numbers down , especially the adas and lying female victimwitness advocates , take their pictures, the ada,s love to gather at there favorite watering hole after 4pm find it if you observe them getting behind the wheel its your duty to have them arrested for drunk driving , it makes me feel good , that I have taken a drunk off the road,
3 days ago
Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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Please contact the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC at (202) 224-5225 Tell Senator Chuck Grassley to give Americans their DUE PROCESS back!! I was recently contacted by a member of the Senate Judiciary Committee. After leaving hundreds of messages for YEARS telling them about these false accusations of domestic violence, mainly happening with Protective Orders, Restraining Orders, PFA's, Domestic violence injunctions, etc.. I couldn't believe they FINALLY returned my calls. She said that the Senate Judiciary Committee is FINALLY going to look at this issue! It is WAY overdue! I believe there are thousands, locked up in jails and prisons all over America, that are completely innocent. Please call the Senate Judiciary Committee in DC. They are FINALLY going to look at this issue.... They NEED to hear from us now.... WHAT needs to be done to STOP these false accusations! Please remember, this is NOT a gender issue.... men and women are BOTH being falsely accused (yes, it happens to men a lot more).... however, this is a NO DUE PROCESS ISSUE! These Protective Orders, Restraining Orders, PFA's, Domestic Violence Injunctions, are circumventing the Constitution, and due process... THAT is why it happens! Its done "ex-parte" (that's a fancy word for "without trial"). Since its considered an "emergency situation", they don't waste time with a trial.... and once the order is issued, the accused will have to PROVE they did NOT commit what they are accused of. Also, they need to start PROSECUTING the ones who ADMIT they lied or were proven to have lied under oath. These people get caught in lies all the time, but they are NEVER prosecuted. EVER. Let me repeat that.... There has NEVER been a prosecution in America for LYING under oath to get a Protective Order or Restraining Order. It is Felony Perjury, to lie under oath to a magistrate or judge in ANY state, but they NEVER prosecute it. 2-3 million Protective Orders / Restraining Orders issued every year in America. ZERO prosecutions. All Prosecutors absolutely refuse! When they get caught LYING under oath to a JUDGE or MAGISTRATE, even the MAGISTRATES will say its because of "battered women syndrome", so they let it slide! Ask the Senate Judiciary Committee WHY that happens?.... and HOW can you NOT have epidemic false accusations, when you allow a system like that to continue to operate? People get caught, and ADMIT to lying under oath to get Protective Orders / Restraining Orders all the time... the Judges and magistrates will freely admit that. What they don't like to admit to... is that they are NEVER prosecuted for it!... and THAT'S why they KEEP doing it! Just keep lying until a magistrate or judge believes you... If you get caught, you're free to try again tomorrow, with a different Judge or Magistrate. Call the Senate Judiciary Committee in DC at (202) 224-5225 Ask for Senator Chuck Grassley. Tell him or his legislative aide WHAT they need to do to stop these false accusations of domestic violence, that are literally destroying our society, one family at a time. The FEDERAL GOVERNMENT is FINALLY going to look into this issue!! Please do not waste this oppurtunity. Call them now. Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC (202) 224-5225 Ask for Senator Chuck Grassley. This is at the FEDERAL level, and they have finally agreed to look at this issue, which should have been done YEARS ago. Please contact them now, and let them know what you think they should do to stop this! Innocent people are sitting in cages right now, and any of us could be next.
3 days ago
Someone from North Dartmouth, MA writes:
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Portland press herald February 24, 2017 scott weyland going through divorce against demented exwife, kandee wayland, ms wayland took out restraining order on him violated him three times, mr weyland facing criminal charges, well she lost custody battle , fataly stabbed husband to death, shes being charged with murder , she states she has mental illness, her former job was taking care of elderly, any womens groups coming to her aid , I'm sure their going to use the battered syndrome when you have a psycho , the courts enable them to abuse the man what a system I think it failed mr weyland. hes quite dead? this woman was living in a house of filth, flooded basement no boiler for heat the quality of life was in jepordy for these children what a story, the more I read about stories of men who truly love their children , are victimized over an over , these demented women who kill their own children, so the man does not get to visit or shared custody, remind me of a mother ,bird , in a nest, if you touch the egg she boots it out of the nest to kill it maybe we can get a female shrink to tell us what goes on in the female brain stem
3 days ago
Someone from North Dartmouth, MA writes:
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if your ex makes false criminal charges, and you prevail in your district court file civil tort action against the cop, exwife and name the court advocate in suit, the female man hating activist are trained at falsly subouning perjury with the vengeful female, the constitution works for everyone,